I must take after my 85 year old mum - she goes regularly to see a psychiatrist after suffering a breakdown and the last time we saw a rather young sort of handsome 30ish year old and she said to h im "how old are you..... you are handsome arent you..."" etc . This particular patient has been here for about 5 months. 0 comments. I try and not do anything more for him than I would any other patient but I do feel the need some times. I think of him outside of work. Still can't make a single friend and it's taking a toll on my (f25) mental health. BUT the older one who saved my life was like a grandfather figure who stepped in to give me more time; sort of like in that old TV series Touched by An Angel. he he. I am rather fond of him in a grandfatherly kind of way, so if he was closer to my age then who knows? Take this quiz to find out! Really friendly,good looking and relaxed and he has grey hair and I do so have a thing about, I really didn't like my first gi doc, and I talked to someone who had lived w/ibd a lot longer than me through a patient matching program. You can probably already tell that I have a huge crush on him. I was so embarassed. When you guys talk, do you find him/her flirting with you? I work in a hospital with patients who have been found not criminally responsible due to mental disorder. But you never know they might like you too so slip em your number !! We’ve actually chatted quite a bit over the last few weeks and even hung out on our building’s roof one night. I work in a hospital with patients who have been found not criminally responsible due to mental disorder. I’m a high school boy who has a crush on a girl, (and she might have a crush on me) but I think that she’s a bad person, I‘m afraid that the girl I had a crush on has a crush on the other girl I had a crush on before her, I haven’t had a crush in a year and i had a crush in her before and I haven’t had one since this is weird cause usually when I’m not into a girl anymore I’ve usually got another one bad now, I think I have a crush on someone who I probably shouldn't have a crush on. With Free Quiz Creator Tool/Software, the developing of new quiz about any subject is a lot easier and time saving. RawConfessions user (Login required), Your Message (please type your comment here). However, right now I’m deeply conflicted and at my wits’ end. These also come out when he’s unwell and psychotic, there’s always that touch of his kindness it in. I’m 40 and married with three children. He was the new dr! By submitting the form, you acknowledged that you are or over 18 years old and you will follow local policies and laws. I know crushes are natural/normal, I’ve just never had this happen with a patient. Over 1 MILLION CONFESSIONS and growing.The World is waiting... By submitting the form, you acknowledged that you are or over 18 years old and you will follow Do you think this person is hot? Check out our forum, blogs, jobs, CME courses and articles. I think its normal, its called transference, I think. in the room he comes I'm in my little paper gown and all the women know how awful the stirrups are! He shares his philosophy on life with me and talks about his beliefs and thoughts on the world. You’ve been in a relationship for years. If this person ever asked you out, what would your reaction be? Here’s my advice: Don’t touch anything until you are very well versed in sterile technique and if you are going to pass out back up against a wall so you don’t comprimise the sterile field. Oooo an accent! I always get the cute doctors whenever I look terrible or have to talk about, Nothing worse than a cute doctor when you're being asked about. He “chooses” me over other staff for certain activities or things to help him with. I have a gi who I don't exactly have a crush on but I get along with, the surgeon I definitely have a crush on, and the assistant surgeon who examined my stoma suspecting a parastomal hernia in the ER I definitely fell in love with. I thought she was nuts, but she did help motivate me to switch docs.... and well, it's not a sexual thing w/me (not so into men), but I do just admire him so much, there is something there that's intense for me. This is light and off-topic but definitely part of my ostomy experience! The shock. One of the drs I went to a while back was from south africa, and he wasn't attractive at all! This particular patient has been here for about 5 months. And to top it off the girl who did my inside ultrasound was beautiful. MomMD is the largest and best site connecting women in medicine. These doctors hold tremendous power and influence over the course of our lives and health, I can see where it would be normal for feelings of admiration, etc to develop and possibly feel like something more at some point. Since he first got here we’ve had a good rapport. But I went to gyn for something a few weeks ago, walked in and there was this smoking hot guy sitting there and I thought, please don't let him be the new dr! My surgeon is lovely. Short, fat, kind of bald, but I could have listened to him talk for hours, I loved when he explained things, lol. The resident Gawker therapist, Anonymous, is a licensed therapist who treats many different patients, but specializes in teens and couples therapy. Hi, I am an MSII but I worked as an RN in the PACU and OR for 5 years. I have a loving wife and a career that, while it doesn’t pay that much, keeps me happy. Anonymous You guys have been friends for awhile, but you just aren't sure if you have a crush on him/her. I’ve been noticing for awhile that I look forward to seeing him. Join our community today! I have a crush on someone I’m not supposed to have a crush on. It's adorable. I have a gi who I don't exactly have a crush on but I get along with, the surgeon I definitely have a crush on, and the assistant surgeon who examined my stoma suspecting a parastomal hernia in the ER I definitely fell in love with. He was very unwell when he first got here, but even then, it was clear he was a really good guy. She said, "You have to be in love w/your gi doc." The horror. 132 views | I think sometimes he notices it too. A doctor dating his patient is generally considered a breach of medical ethics. Not cool at all. And out of nowhere, you’re crushing on your co-worker, your friend or even your neighbor. I spend more time talking to him than I do other patients at times. Dehn (whose really informative--and fun to read-- health blog is worth checking out) says, as crazy as it sounds, it's normal to develop a "crush" on your doctor. Do you like it? We’re similar in age and have a lot of the same interests, which doesn’t tend to happen with most of the patients. Do you always feel a need to impress him/her? local policies and laws. When I was recovering there was a group of doctors/interns who would come by every day and talk to me...all of them were young men...and good looking. Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Maybe you’re even married. Take this quiz! 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433) - National Hope Network Toll-Free, 24/7 hotline for emergency suicide information, 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) - National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 24/7 free and confidential support for people in distress, 1-866-488-7386 - The Trevor HelpLine - Specializing in LGBTQ youth suicide prevention & help, Child Helpline International - International Child Helpline Network, RAINN - International Sexual Assault Helplines, Mental Health Europe - Helplines for Young People. My mom absolutely has a crush on my surgeon. He is the one I trusted enough to take his recommendation on surgery etc.... he is about. Post Edited (esoR) : 11/21/2011 7:26:03 PM (GMT-7). I went down such a bad road with surgeons (my defendant ones), the "crush" scene is totally not in my realm with any doctor. I didn't really feel that, my surgeon was not really my type and both my gis were older. One of them was so handsome he looked like Elvis. If you are in need of help please contact people who care and please remember suicide is never the answer. SWOON... yes i think i near enough chatted up some handsome doctors in the past usually when high on drugs or something..  unfortunately they are always juniors and move on somewhere else...i think i said something like "you are much too handsome to be a doctor" or something like that lol! No part of this website can be reproduced in any form without prior written consent.All rights reserved © var year = new Date();var yyyy = year.getFullYear();document.write(yyyy); RawConfessions.com. Dear Alice, I just moved into a new apartment last month and I recently met my next door neighbor and sparks flew. Without affecting his care, I’ve been trying to keep my distance a bit. He specifically comes to say hi or bye to me when he sees me arriving or leaving, and I don’t often see him do that with others. A friend told me he thinks it's normal to fall in love with your doctors. Guess what? that works everytime, lol. Add comment as: Boyfriend [m28] did something shitty and I [F25] am having a hard time with it. It’s very taboo to even discuss this with staff (even though it’s normal, many people have them, they go away eventually, etc) so I haven’t been able to share this with anyone. Just select the subject about which you want to create a new quiz and go ahead with your questions and their options. Yes it would be inappropriate. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. I’m such a childish idiot. Some forums can only be seen by registered members. My surgeon is more than old enough to be my grandfather, so no crush there. About Quizz Creator. He’s also pretty attractive. Moved to a new state 5 years ago. He goes out of his way to do things he doesn’t like, just because I might be there. 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